Sex Therapy for Gay and Queer Men

AASECT-certified. Gay-owned practice. Stamford, CT and online.

Most therapists will affirm who you are. Fewer will actually talk about sex. I'm Matthew K. Phillips, an AASECT-certified sex therapist and gay man in Stamford, CT. I work with gay and queer men on the things that are hardest to say out loud. In person and online.

  • Gay & Queer Men

    You don't have to explain yourself before the work begins. I work with gay and queer men on identity, shame, sexuality, and the particular terrain of building a life that actually fits.

  • Gay Male Couples

    Two men in a relationship face dynamics that most couples therapists don't fully understand. I work with gay and queer male couples on communication, sexual connection, relationship agreements, and everything in between.

  • Transgender People

    When you tell me who you are, I believe you and the work starts there. I work with transgender adolescents and adults, and with the parents and families who want to show up for them.

  • Men

    Men carry a lot without saying much about it. I work with men on sexual concerns, relationships, emotions, and everything the cultural script doesn't leave room for.

Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy

Meet your therapist.

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Matthew K. Phillips, PhD, MEd, LCSW, CST

My Blog: “Authenticity Matters

Perspectives on My Work